Developer Advocate at Lightning Labs | Organizer of San Juan Bitdevs | Founder of Velas Commerce | Here you'll find Bitcoin, Lightning, and whatever is on my mind.
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Last Notes npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose It's a very important life skill to know what your "triggers" or "sensitivities" are. There isn't anything wrong with having them, you should have them, they are warning signals to keep you safe. You just need to learn to be aware of them and to manage them. What are your "triggers"? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://m.primal.net/KtIs.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Ya that could be an issue, and this is where a good woman wouldn't put a dude in that situation. But, if you get into bed with a woman and she winds up pregnant, I think you have to take on some responsibility there based off the very real possibility that that is your kid. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose What is healthy masculinity? What is healthy femininity? People like to go backwards and forwards over this one and I have never seen an explanation that I like, so I made my own. To be a man or a woman is simply to have a different set of logistical challenges in life. To be a good man or a good woman is to do a good job of handling the burdens, and the privileges, of your circumstance. The difference between men and women is pregnancy, everything else, EVERYTHING else, is downstream of that. Men have the privilege of walking away from a pregnancy. As such, a good man is a man who chooses to take on responsibility. Men, in general, have the privilege of being less physically vulnerable than women. As such, a good man is a man who chooses to protect those more physically vulnerable than him. Women, in general, have the privilege of being able to create life. That’s massive. As such, a good woman is a woman who, if/when she chooses to do so, chooses to create life in a responsible, thoughtful, and loving way. A good woman is a person who is aware of, and respectful of, the burdens that men face. A good man is a person who is aware of, and respectful of, the burdens that women face. And of course, any individual that tries to deride, shame, or control another is a monster. Thanks for coming to my TED talk. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Hi npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://m.primal.net/Komi.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose A much more worthwhile use of time 👏 npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Good morning! I am braced for a day full of posts from the righties explaining why Trump trounced Harris, and posts from the lefites explaining why Harris trounced Trump. Ahh Merica! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose It is just cute cats or am I missing some subtext here? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Good morning ladies... https://m.primal.net/KiHP.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose It’s rather unfortunate the way political “discourse” happens on social media. My feed is full of people laying into one politician or the other, but for the most ridiculous of reasons. A silly thing said 20 years ago, a rummer, a Tweet taken out of context, etc, etc. And what a foolish method, what a waste of time when there are just mountains of rather solid reasons to disprove of all major candidates here. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Tonight! It's time to drink wine and argue about Bitcoin... and really, what could be better??? 🍷 https://www.meetup.com/san-juan-bitdevs/events/303138385/ npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Good morning! This election season remember: Idolizing a politician is like believing the stripper actually likes you. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I have no respect for dudes who can’t mindfully, actively care about women’s issues. I have been violently assaulted, brutally betrayed, had my livelihood threatened, consistently harassed, I can’t leave my home without making preparations to be sure that I’m not assaulted again, I have to teach my daughter how to avoid being assaulted, I am the shoulder to cry on for my friends when they are assaulted… and yet, through all of that I make a point of consciously, consistently, actively caring about the lives of men, and the issues that effect them. I do this, actively, consciously, because it is the only honorable thing do to. It is the only respectable thing to do, to actively care for others, to actively care for those whose pain and experiences are different from your own, despite your scars. If I am capable of managing it, they are too. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Well I agree with a lot of you thinking here, but it's just a miracle that people can grow and change in the same direction with another human for decades on decades in a row! Even in non-abusive relationships I don't think it's a good idea to expect 0%. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Real humans change and grow. It's not realistic to expect everyone to stay with someone they chose decades ago for the rest of their life. Sometimes divorce is healthy. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose What do yo think is a healthy divorce rate? At 1% I think something has gone wrong... like is divorce illegal in India? And at 90% clearly something else has gone wrong. So what is a healthy rate? I'd say about 20-30%. You? https://m.primal.net/KcZA.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose ...is that how long it would take a star link to get delivered there? lol npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://m.primal.net/KcUQ.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I like how it's done in Latin America. Both adults keep their names and the kids get both names. I also like the idea of both parties changing their names to a unique name they themselves create. But whatever people do, I think it needs to be even, and not one person forfeiting their identity for the identity of the other.